"Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the person we love
we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us.
We miss out on so many beautiful things and simply because
we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns.
Go for the man of words for you will find rewarding happiness
not with the man you love but the man who loves you more.
The best lovers are those who are capable of loving from a distance,
far enough to allow the other person to grow,
but never too far to feel the love deep within your being.
To let go of someone doesn’t mean you have to stop loving,
it only means you allow the person to find his own happiness
without expecting him to come back.
Letting go is not just setting
the other person free,
but also setting yourself free from all bitterness,
hatred, and anger that keep in your heart.
Do not let bitterness rare away your strength and weaken your faith,
and never allow pain to dishearten you,
but rather let you grow with wisdom in hearing it.
You may have found peace in just loving someone from distance
not expecting anything in return.
Be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give room for us to grow.
We can all survive just beautiful memories of the past
but real peace and happiness comes only
with open acceptances of what reality is today.
There are times in our lives
when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful
and we just find ourselves
getting so intensely attracted to that person.
This feeling soon become a part of our everyday lives a
nd eventually consumes our thoughts and actions.
The sad part of it is when we begin to realize
that this person feels nothing more for us.
We start our desperate attempt to get noticed
and be closer
but in the end, our efforts are still unearned
and we end up sorry for ourselves.
You don’t have to forget someone you love.
What you need to learn is
how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself.
Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication
and love to someone more deserving.
Don’t let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for its self.
Listen not only to your feelings but to the reasons as well.
Always remember that if you lose someone today,
it means that someone better is coming tomorrow.
If you lose love, that doesn’t mean that you failed in love.
Cry if you love to,
but make it sure the tears have washed away
the hurt and the bitterness that the past left with you.
Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you.
And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay
and last a lifetime.
Lastly, It`s hard to find true love because people
are too caught up looking for the perfect person,
and they don`t realize that love is not finding the perfect person,
but being perfect for the right person."
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